A ‘Being with’ Attitude
Cultivating Connection: Play Therapy and nurturing a "Being with" Attitude in Parenting
Hey there, parents! Have you ever felt like you're not quite connecting with your child, despite your best efforts? Well, you're not alone. In the world of parenting, fostering genuine connection can sometimes feel like a tricky puzzle. But fear not, because there's a powerful approach that can help bridge that gap: Garry L. Landreth's "Being with" attitude which is an attitude embraced by Child-centred Play Therapists.
So, what exactly is this "Being with" attitude all about? Imagine it as a mindset encapsulated in four simple yet profound notions: "I am here, I hear you, I understand, I care." Let's break it down.
"I am here."
It's about being present in the moment with your child, both physically and emotionally. It's putting aside distractions and giving your undivided attention, showing your child that they have your full presence and support.
"I hear you."
This goes beyond just listening. It's about truly hearing and validating your child's thoughts, feelings, and experiences. It's creating a safe space where they feel heard and understood without judgment.
"I understand."
Empathy is key here. It's about stepping into your child's shoes and seeing the world from their perspective. It's acknowledging their emotions and letting them know that it's okay to feel what they feel.
"I care."
This is the heart of it all. It's showing unconditional love and acceptance, no matter what. It's being there for your child through the ups and downs, letting them know that they are valued and cherished.
Now, you might be wondering, does this approach really make a difference? Well, the stats speak for themselves. Studies have shown that children who feel emotionally connected to their parents tend to have higher self-esteem, better emotional regulation, and stronger relationships in the long run.
But how can we put this into practice in our daily lives? One powerful way is through play. Play is not just about having fun; it's a crucial tool for communication and connection. That's where Inspiring Play: Play Therapy comes in.
Inspiring Play: Play Therapy offers a nurturing environment where children can express themselves freely through play, while trained therapists help them make sense of their emotions and experiences. Through play, children learn to trust, communicate, and build relationships, laying the foundation for healthy emotional development.
So, dear parents, let's embrace the "Being with" attitude in our parenting journey. Let's be present, listen with our hearts, empathize with our children's experiences, and show them unwavering love and support. Together, we can nurture emotional development, foster strong relationships, and create a bond that lasts a lifetime.
In the end, it all boils down to one simple question: Are you ready to truly connect with your child and cultivate a relationship built on love, understanding, and acceptance?
